Calm Your Nerves And Release Stress:

by Carole Fogarty

“Smile, breathe and go slowly” by Thich Nhat Hanh Zen Buddhist

Feel more relaxed and peaceful on the inside by simply turning 100% of your awareness inwards. Yes, give yourself permission to disconnect from the busyness around you (even if its only for a few moments) and re-direct your energy and breath inwards.

Once your awareness is gently guided away from the overstimulating, overly demanding outside world – you can then draw upon one, two or more natural relaxation practices (tools) that you know will bring relief or at the very least take the edge off how you are currently feeling.

You are your own best expert of your body …….. and know in this moment  ………… whether you are living life from your calm, peaceful centre ….. or  responding to life from a fatigued, stressed, exhausted place.

Know, there are things you can do, if you find yourself feeling anxious, stressed, tension building up or simply fried.


Calm your nerves and release the tension:

1:  Melt the frown. Smile and release the worry.  It takes energy, lots and lots of energy to hold a tense, tight frown on your forehead.  Check in with your forehead now – lose the frown then relax the skin across your forehead.  Notice how you release the pressure in your temples as well when you melt the frown.  While you are at it, pay close attention to your teeth and jaw.  Un-clench your jaw, relax your tongue (very important) and part your teeth slightly.  This will help enormously release facial and neck tension.  You might even notice your shoulders relaxing and dropping at the same time.

Melt the frown, un-clench your jaw and drop your shoulders.

2: Take a chill pill Close your eyes, cup the palms of your hands over your ears, now listen to the sounds of the ocean playing inside your head.  Continue until you feel your nerves a little less frazzled, your thoughts a little calmer and your breathing more relaxed.

3:  Turn off the noise: Silence nourishes your body, mind and soul.  Silence is very restorative. Toxic urban noise is never ending and can be a constant background stress that you may not be aware of.  Tune into your hearing and notice which sounds irritate you.  Take a five minute “no noise” break.  Alternately turn down or turn off any unnecessary stressful noise.

4: Repeat a calming mantra: Use your thoughts to fuel your body with a constant stream of calming and relaxing thoughts. Mantras work because they take your focus away from the stress and drama (just for a moment) and invite more peace into your life.  Here’s a few of my favorites that you might like use.

I remember to breathe and relax moment by moment”

One of my personal favorites is “Every cell in my body is loved and healthy”.

Breath in “I am calm” breathe out “I smile”

5:  Take a mental health break: A less crowded mind means your nervous system is calmer.  Take regular breaks from too much thinking and bring your awareness back into your body.

Do your best to have an enjoyable morning and afternoon tea away from your desk in a pleasant environment. Listen to the requests of your body, drink when thirsty, stretch and move when you need to and never skip a meal.  An added bonus; A quiet mind has direct access to wisdom and insight.

6: Adjust your breathing: Find some calm: Make your “out” breath twice as long as your “in” breath. This will immediately calm you down.

Your breathing directly reflects your stress levels. If you breathing is fast, tight and shallow then I encourage to read my article 12 great reasons to start alternate nostril breathing:

7: Calm your nerves by turning your back to the world: This is in my top 3 all time favorite relaxation postures in the world.

Its such a simple way to calm an overcrowded mind, call back your scattered energies back, calm your breathing and relax. Click here for full details. I promise you’ll love it.

8: Hug well and hug often: Give a hug or receive a hug, either way hug well and hug often. Heh, even give yourself a hug.  Hugging and cuddling is therapeutic, healing and calming.  According to Virginia Satir a family therapist; we need 4 hugs a day for survival, 8 hugs a day for maintenance and 12 hugs a day for growth.  Whats your daily hug quota?

9: Rest your eyes: When you relax your eyes you are inviting your mind and body to follow.  Do yourself a favor and grab yourself a yoga eye pillow and enjoy 5 minutes of relaxation.

10: Self massage nourishes your nervous system: I love my early morning “warm” oil massage.  Touch is healing and extremely nourishing to your body.  Self massage releases happy feelings into your body, improves circulation and supports the removal of toxins from your body.  There are simply loads of benefits.

Whilst “self massage” might seem like hard work at first, I can guarantee you’ll soon notice a difference.

11: Cancel, clear, delete your energy drains: Notice what zaps your precious energy and reduce your exposure to gossip, shopping centers, busy places, certain friends or family members. Better still cancel, clear and delete their existence in your life.

12: Give yourself a chocolate facial: Warning!  This is very addicted.  Licking is definitely allowed as long as no one is looking.

13: Hum your worries away: Time to Hum. Place your hand on top of your head, smile, now start humming.

Feel the healing vibration of the hum reach the top of your head. Your clever hum will brush away the cob webs, soothe your mind, relax your face muscles and nourish your nervous system.

14:  Sip a calming potion: If all else fails then do what I do; grab for my bottle of passion flower.  I know for a fact that the medicinal herb of passion flower calms my energies in an instant.

It great for insomnia and nervousness and has a sedative effect on your nervous system. Around one teaspoon sends a warm calming feeling throughout my body.

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Beside my bed:

bookcoverThis book is stunning medicine for your mind, body and soul.

I’m re-reading it …. again!  Whilst a novel in essence, it’s cleverly written layered with wonderful life teachings.

Imagine what life would be like if you were in fact the Dalai Lama’s cat.  Quite possibly you could become the kindest most compassionate cat in the world.

The amazing thing about this book – it always leaves me feeling calm and peaceful.  An energy oozes from it.

The Dalai Lama’s Cat is by far one of my favourite books. xx Carole

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{ 17 comments… read them below or add one }

Helene November 22, 2008 at 4:29 pm

Thanks for your contribution to my Take Charge of Your Health Care Carnival. These are great relaxation tips. I like the picture of blowing bubbles. I have to try that again some time.

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Jamie March 28, 2012 at 11:39 am

Thanks! It worked for me.

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Mary@SimplyForties December 1, 2008 at 3:34 am

Some excellent advice in this very hectic time of year! I love your picture. Taking a breath and forcing yourself to slow down can really be difficult but is so effective! I also love #8. I’m going to start counting.

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B December 1, 2008 at 5:33 am

Nice post..U covered all the ideas for de stressing very well. The day to day clutter really gets u down and this was a must read..
One point that also helps is listening to soft songs

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Marie January 3, 2009 at 2:56 am

These are great! I like to drink chamomile tea at night to unwind. I also do Energy Medicine exercises in the morning.

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Bravo February 22, 2011 at 2:55 am

Your advice was uplifting thanks changed my life in so many ways in relaxing can already feel calm :)

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Sheila G. November 15, 2011 at 11:04 pm

Thank “YOU” for your peaceful inspiring inspiration on Peace, calm, solitude and so much more. I feel the zen and we all must learn how to feel it and keep it close daily!!! Blessings, Peace and Hugs! P.S. Blowing bubbles and scented baths with candles, and scented oil massages are so calming…… TRY IT!

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Carole Fogarty November 20, 2011 at 6:57 am

Sheila you are most welcome

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CJ, London December 12, 2011 at 9:57 pm

For obvious reasons I would not recommend doing this all the time – but a big jolt of sugar often works. I first discovered this at uni when I started bringing a few boiled sweets into long exams to keep my grey stuff working. I noticed that it helped my nerves at the same time as keeping fatigue at bay (again – short term quick fix only, I’m not saying eat piles of sugar 24/7).

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Maddy Mehr June 1, 2012 at 4:14 am

this is the best therapy on line that I have ever had and I can promise anyone that.
You feel so relaxed after you follow the simple steps to release stress.
On a mark out of 10 I would give you 11.
5 stars

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Carole Fogarty June 1, 2012 at 2:15 pm

Thanks Maddy. I love getting feedback like that. xx Carole

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TIFFANY TROTTER July 22, 2012 at 3:38 pm

amazing website i feel less frazzled than earlier today now that i seen your website i will defenitly give you a 11 rating that these tips are fantastic i will give you a 100% happyness approval i feel so relaxed right now this has been this calm and collected since tonight i haven,t been feeling so relaxed so keep up the good work i totally forgot why i was feeling frazzled lately because i have this huge event at my church and i have a feeling i,ll be in it and here is what is making me a little nervous because i never did anything live before i heard my pastor say that flag team whitch by the way i,m a part of saying that i,ll be coming up and doing my routine here is what,s making me feel nerous 1 i,m afraid that i,ll drop my flag and 2 that every country is going to be watching us perform live and this pressure is kinda feel a little nauseated i hope there is a way to calm them down before i perform in 2 months i don,t want to keep feeling this pressure it,s killing me it,s kinda like i have butterflies in my stomach so will you tell me how to soothe my nerves a little bit.thanks for letting me get everything out i feel 100% better now thanks to your website so in closing i <3 your website.

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Amanda September 1, 2012 at 10:39 am

Thank you! I love so many of these ideas! Especially the humming exercise. And I really believe that about the hugging. I have been way too busy and frazzled these days, and I need to take more time just to be. Thank you for the reminder. By the way, my go-to herb is Tulsi, aka holy basil…. I make tinctures and hydrosol sprays–the best, sweetest smell you’ll ever smell, and also an adaptogenic herb. very balancing and centering. cheers!

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Carole Fogarty September 2, 2012 at 7:02 am

Hi Amanda, Thank you. Yes I’ve been a lover of Holy Basil for years, couldn’t agree with you more. xx Carole

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musa ali November 1, 2012 at 8:13 pm

i like this site bery bery much

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Hannah .H. November 9, 2012 at 10:03 am

I loved it! The reason I was searching for calming exercises was the fact that in December 2012 i will be playing in my first ever flute recital! I am really excited but really nervous, so i turned to the Internet. Thanks a lot!
5 stars! (By the way, I find sewing and reading very relaxing.Well,unless you get pricked by a needle or a paper cut from the book)

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balamurugan May 14, 2014 at 7:09 pm

i have two head injury in my forehead now. i need to relax all my neveres and muscles . i need to do execrcise . can u sugusset me

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